Completely random but interviewing 250 girls in Shibuya, the Rank Kingdom TV program said these were the top 10 things they didn’t want their boyfriends to know.

10. Birthplace
9. How stupid I really am? (like how bad I failed that test)
8. Sleeping habits (like drooling or snoring)
7. Previous lovers
6. Actual height
5. Face without makeup
4. Actual waist size
3. Diary
2. Cell phone e-mail contents
1. Actual weight


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What can I tell you about me?  What will get you to write me?

I’m 36.  I’m from Los Angeles.  I look white but I’m actually a mix.  Hawaiian, Tahitian, Chinese, Portuguese, English, Irish and Dutch.  You can’t see the Pacific Asian in me, I picked up my mom’s genes and my sister got my dad’s.  In fact when we were kids most people didn’t think we were related.

An advantage to being Hawaiian though is that I got introduced to lots of interesting foods and so now as an adult I love trying new foods.

This last 18 months I’ve been studying Japanese fulltime in Tokyo, Japan.  My Japanese is pretty good.  I have mostly not spoken in English in the last 18 months.  That doesn’t mean there isn’t lots of room for improvement but I get by.

My current hobbies include updating this website, photography, visiting new restaurants and cafes, meeting friends, watching movies, listening and singing to music, trying my hand at graphic design, stuff like that.  You could add travel except that I don’t like to travel alone but invite me and I’m there!

I collect stuff.  Let’s see, watches I never wear (well lately) I have about 50. Books I never read (don’t we all?) I have 3 or 4 bookshelves full. Movies I never watch (that’s not true, I have watched most of them)  I have probably 300 total.  Stuffed animals I never see (well, that’s because I’m in Japan and most of them are in storage in America but then I do have 4 or 5 new ones here in Japan).  I have around 70 including an 8 foot tall giraffe.  CDs I never listen too (well, more so in Japan than in the states.  I have around 800 but I only brought about 150 to Japan and I think I got most of my listening time in the car while driving, something I don’t get to do in Japan)

I’ve lived quite a few places including Provo Utah, Philadelphia Pennsylvania, Baltimore Maryland, Cockeysville Maryland, San Francisco California, Tokyo Japan and of course all over Los Angeles and Orange County California.  I don’t plan ahead of time that I’m going to move but it just happens.  Situations change and I end up moving.

Up until this point in my life I’ve been a KICK ASS video game programmer. That means I’m creative, imaginative, smart, resourceful and kids love me 😉  Making video games is extremely hard work.  More so than most jobs I know of.

What am I looking for?  Of course all the normal things.  Smart, nice, fun to be with, easy going.  Some things I’m looking for that may be a little rarer are for example creativity.  I love women that do something creative whether is make crafts or videos or music or webpages or whatever.

Probably the most rare quality I’m looking for is someone with experience in at least one of the following.  Web design, Photoshop, Illustrator, Flash, Director, 3D Graphics/Effects, Programming, Graphic design.  Why?  Well, because those are parts of my life and they will from time to time come up in conversation and there’s nothing worse than having your girlfriend role her eyes, shut off her brain, and make some snide remark about "oh no, not that topic".  It’s not so much that you have to have experience with one of those things but if those topics come up and you are going to give me a look of "yuck" then your are not for me.  I want to be with someone who approves of  me and that includes liking what I do and not looking at it as "mad scientist stuff".

Other than that I’m pretty easy going.:-D

If you want to see more pictures or other info about me, try the older links below for older versions of this page.

Write me here.

   before 2002-01-19
   before 2001-08-10
   before 2000-08-20
   before 2000-06-06
   before 1999-10-22
   before 1999-04-06
before 1999-03-16

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CDさ、音楽がなかったら人生が苦しくならないか?その上にいつも同じ音楽を聞くと飽きるので「Napster」を使わないさえ、たまに新しいCDを買わなくっちゃ。今スウィングとテクノが特に好きだけどカントリー以外何でもすきだよ。先買ったCD5枚は「Faye Wong」フェー・ウォン、「Brian Setzer」ブライアン・セッツァー、「Janet Jackson」ジャネット・ジャクソン、「Orbital」オービタル、「Depeche Mode」デペッシュ・モードだ。最近友達から美空ひばりの貢ぎのCDをもらった。最高面白いよ。






Marriage Sucks? Sleep Apart

Today I was in Shiodome and stumbled on the National Center (National as in National-Panasonic). National makes all kinds of household items from refrigerators and microwaves to Japanese style bathrooms, kitchens, and living rooms. In Shiodome they have a large showroom where you can see all their different interior offerings.

One floor had fairly fancy high class rooms showing off different interior designs. Some of them were very cool but the one that really stuck out was this one… (more…)


I’ve been pretty busy lately with coding and coding questions and although I’ve wanted to post many of them on my site along with any answers I found (and hoping people offered some as well) I’ve not posted them, mostly because I feel they might be pretty boring to those coming here for Japan info.


Getting a Date

Hello and welcome to my dating info page. If it's not clear I've changed my look. You can check out my old pages if you are curious what you used to look like.

What do you want to know about me?

Well for starters, I'm a video game creator. I enjoy the creative aspects of my job. Games incorporate all the disciplines of movies, music, graphic design as well as all the disciplines that take those and turn them into a a game, game design, technology, artificial intelligence. You couldn't ask for a more creative field I think.

I'm also a programmer. It has it's advantages. I can build and fix a computer. If there is a technical problem I want solved I can usually solve it. I wrote the system that runs this website for instance.

Not so vital stats
Name: Gregg
Location: Tokyo
Age: 39
Height: 5'10 (178cm)
Eye Color: Brown
Blood Type: Alien
Sign: Peace
Dogs or Cats: Dogs
Drink: Sometimes
Smoke: No way!
Religion: nope

I love eating and trying new cuisines. When I get the chance I go out with my more adventurous friends and try new restaurants. I can't imagine eating the same dish or even the same cuisine every day. Even though I look white I'm positive I can use chopsticks better than you! 🙂

I'm a music lover. Before I moved to Japan I had over 900 CDs. I pretty much like stuff all over the board. For dancing I like techno but for listening everything is good. Rock, Pop, Jazz, Swing, Bossa Nova, Vocals, Oldies, Hip Hop, R&B, Lounge, Ska, you name the genre and there are probably a few songs I'm into. I also like singing but most of that occurs in the car while I'm driving and being in Tokyo I don't get to drive much. If the song matches my voice I do okay.

I love going to the movies of course. I especially like to going to opening day blockbuster movies and seeing them when you can feel the energy in the audience. I don't usually mind crowded places like Shibuya since the more people there are the more interesting things there are to see.

Taking me to a bookstore is dangerous since I will want to buy 50 books even if I'll never read them. I especially like Art books, Architecture books and Children's books. On the other hand I don't read nearly as much as I should. For novels I probably prefer SF or something with a new idea to challenge my imagination.

I like doing crafts although I don't do them often enough. Making my own art, photography, or even clothing. You might even consider this website a craft as well.

I'm not really into sports, both doing and watching. I would like to do more. I'd like to try snowboarding more and some tennis but I need a partner. I'd also like to try surfing. Swimming is always fun as I grew up swimming since I was like 3yrs old.

I'm looking for someone who is first and foremost a fun person to be with. Someone who says "yes" to most suggestions about what to do. I'm also looking for someone that can be my best friend. My best guess is that person should have some similar interests. Movies and music are not similar interests, everybody enjoys those. I'm guessing that is someone that enjoys all the things a computer allows them to do and maybe enjoys a video games once in a while. That doesn't mean you should be a "geek" but it means that if you find computers boring or you think video games are a waste of time then we are clearly not a match.

I'm also looking for someone that is into the American ideal of a relationship which is that once you become a "couple" for the most part you act as a couple. Because you are best friends you want to do not all but most things together as a couple. I only bring that up because the Japanese ideal seems to be you sleep together a few times a week but you play with your friends separately.  I'm not looking for that kind of relationship.

You should also be smart, believe in yourself and preferably believe that you can do anything you set your mind to.

Other than that I’m pretty easy going.:-D

If you want to see more pictures or other info about me, try the older links below for older versions of this page.

Write me here.

   before 2005-06-19
   before 2002-01-19
   before 2001-08-10
   before 2000-08-20
   before 2000-06-06
   before 1999-10-22
   before 1999-04-06
before 1999-03-16



Japanese Youth Shun Computers

Or something like that.  My Japanese teacher brought in an article for me to read today about a survey some guy did from Nov~Dec 2004.  The survey was about cell phone and computer use among elementary school students 4th grade and up through junior high and up to high school sophomores students throughout Japan.  All in all they got responses from about 15000 students.

Some interesting stats:

Percent of students that have a cell phone:

  • Elementary school 19%
  • Junior high school 45%
  • High school 93%

Of those students that have a cell phone percent that send at least one e-mail a day.


My First MP3 Player

My latest impulse buy was to get an MP3 player.  My excuse was thinking how when I try to work out with no music I get bored and tired in minutes but when I go dancing to techno music I can dance for 3-4 hours non-stop (well, not quite but maybe 3 to 4 times for 40 minutes each with a 20 minute break).

On top of that with the iShuffle listed at $99 it almost seemed like an impulse buy. So, I went looking. I had pretty much ruled out an iShuffle because Rhapsody now supports unlimited downloading of music to any WMA supporting player and of course Apple’s systems don’t support WMA. Still, at only $99 I did think maybe I could live with that limit if nothing else was any good.



Pretty much everywhere they are selling iPods there are now Sega iDogs.  They listen to your music and shake their head and flash their colors and make sounds to the music your are listening too.  If you click the link above there is a Mini Movie of one in action in the bottom right.

It seems like dogs have been all the rage for the last couple of years with The Dog, Nintendogs and now iDogs.